The Pumpkin Plan - The secret question for bigger sales...


The Power of Strategic Client Conversations

Hi Reader,

💡 Today's Niblit: In "The Pumpkin Plan", Mike Michalowicz discovered that asking clients about their industry frustrations, instead of his company's performance, unlocked a larger goldmine of business opportunities. One simple conversation led to a billing change that increased client satisfaction and boosted his revenue by 40%.

🔑 Key Insight: Most client feedback calls focus on your performance, yielding polite responses and surface-level insights. The Wish List approach flips the script — you ask about their industry challenges, daily frustrations, and secret desires for how things could work better.

Picture the difference between asking "How are we doing?" versus "What keeps you awake at night about your industry?" The first question triggers defensive politeness; the second opens floodgates of genuine pain points and unmet needs that represent massive opportunities for your business.

When you understand what truly frustrates your best clients about their world — not just your slice of it — you discover pathways to become indispensable. You stop being just another vendor and start becoming their strategic ally in solving real problems.

🦉 Nibble of Wisdom: Your clients' biggest frustrations are your biggest opportunities.

🛠️ Practical Tip: Schedule "industry insight" calls with your top clients. Ask about their broader challenges, not your performance. Frame it as research to better serve their industry.

🚀 Quick Action: Call your best client this week and ask: "What's your biggest frustration with vendors in our industry?" Listen carefully. Their answer might contain your next breakthrough idea.

🔍 Further Exploration:

  • Think about the last time a vendor solved a problem you didn't even know you had. What made that experience memorable?
  • Consider which client complaints about your industry could become your competitive advantage.
  • Learn about Jobs to be Done theory, which focuses on understanding the deeper motivations behind customer choices.

🎬 Wrapup: Your clients aren't just buyers, they're industry insiders with valuable intelligence about unmet needs and market gaps. By tapping into their wisdom, you position yourself to anticipate their needs before they even voice them.

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Listening for opportunity,

Tom "wish list whisperer" Bernthal


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