Why Last Minute Reconciliations Are Beautiful But Tragic

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💡 Today's Niblit: In Taking Stock, Jordan Grumet tells the story of Paul, who reconciled with his estranged family just hours before death. While the moment was beautiful, Grumet reveals the hidden tragedy: Paul and his family could have enjoyed years of connection if they hadn't waited until the final hours to make peace.

🔑 Key Insight: Last-minute reconciliations are common in hospice care, but they highlight how people wait for crisis to drive change rather than choosing transformation while healthy and time-rich. The dying consistently express regret not just about broken relationships, but about waiting so long to repair them.

It's like keeping a beautiful gift wrapped in your closet for decades, only opening it when you're about to move out forever. The gift is still meaningful, but imagine how much joy you missed by not unwrapping it when you had years to enjoy it. Most people script their lives hoping for miracle endings rather than creating miracle middles.

This matters because change becomes exponentially harder and less meaningful as options narrow. The courage to act while you're healthy, relationships are salvageable, and time stretches ahead of you multiplies every positive outcome. Waiting for rock bottom to force growth wastes the prime years when change could yield the greatest returns.

🦉 Nibble of Wisdom: "There is both beauty and tragedy in the telling of Paul's story... Wouldn't Paul and his family have been much happier and healthier if they had reconciled years earlier?"

🛠️ Practical Tip: Stop waiting for the "perfect moment" or external pressure to make necessary changes. If something needs addressing in your life, treat urgency as a gift rather than a burden.

🚀 Quick Action: Identify one relationship, habit, or situation you've been putting off changing. Send that text, make that call, or take that first step today. Don't wait for a crisis to force what courage could accomplish right now.

🔍 Further Exploration:

• Reflect on areas where you're waiting for external motivation rather than acting from internal wisdom.
• Consider what "miracle ending" you might be unconsciously hoping for instead of creating change now.
• Explore the concept of Temporal Landmarks and how you can create your own fresh start moments.
• What would you regret not changing if you knew you had one year left?

🎬 Wrapup: Remember, the most beautiful deathbed reconciliations are also the most tragic because they reveal decades of lost connection. Don't let your life be a story of waiting for the final chapter to get good. The time for change is now, while you still have time to enjoy the results.

🔗 Links:

• Check out Taking Stock by Jordan Grumet on Amazon
• ​Taking Stock on Kindle​
• ​Taking Stock Audiobook​
• ​Read Taking Stock for FREE​

Not waiting for tomorrow,

Tom "change is for the living" Bernthal

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