Can't Hurt Me - Eating from Your “Cookie Jar”


When the Tank Feels Empty, Raid Your "Cooke Jar"

Hi Reader,

💡 Today's Niblit: David Goggins discovered the Cookie Jar technique during his first 100-mile run when he was on the verge of collapse at mile 70. In "Can't Hurt Me", he reveals how mentally accessing past victories can provide fuel when you feel completely drained.

🔑 Key Insight: Your past accomplishments are stored energy waiting to be accessed during your darkest moments. Just like a cookie jar filled with treats, your mind contains a collection of victories, both big and small, that can provide emotional fuel when you're running on empty.

Think of it like having a backup generator. When the main power goes out, you don't sit in darkness, you flip a switch and the backup kicks in. Your Cookie Jar works the same way. When your primary motivation fails and doubt floods your mind, you can reach into your mental vault and pull out a specific memory of overcoming odds.

This technique works because it shifts your brain from focusing on current pain to remembering proof of your capability. It's not just positive thinking, it's evidence-based confidence. You're not telling yourself you can do something; you're reminding yourself of times you already did something difficult.

🦉 Nibble of Wisdom: "We all need small sparks, small accomplishments in our lives to fuel the big ones." — David Goggins

🛠️ Practical Tip: Write down five specific moments when you overcame something difficult. Keep this list handy for when motivation runs low.

🚀 Quick Action: Right now, think of one time you succeeded when you wanted to quit. Write down three specific details about how it felt to push through and win.

🔍 Further Exploration:

  • Discover how autobiographical memory affects performance under stress
  • Examine how Olympic athletes use similar visualization techniques during competition
  • Learn about the psychological concept of self-efficacy and how past experiences shape future performance

🎬 Wrapup: Your Cookie Jar isn't just about big wins, it's filled with every time you didn't give up. Every small victory is a cookie waiting to fuel your next challenge. Stock it well, and you'll never run out of reasons to keep going.

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Collecting victories with you,

Tom "cookie monster of wins" Bernthal


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